Showing posts with label Hilary Thompson. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Hilary Thompson. Show all posts

Saturday, 16 February 2013

Saturday Musings - The winds of change


I grew up during the 1950’s and 60’s when life was very different. The amount of change that I have seen in my life so far is astonishing especially when it comes to technology.

My childhood TV
I remember the first TV that we had was in black & white, no colour in those days. It had a small screen surrounded by a wooden case. No wonder it became known as "The Box".
The picture would sometimes go fuzzy or disappear altogether and we would be shown a message saying something like “Normal transmission will resume as soon as possible, do not adjust your set”.
My TV

Now we have slim line digital TV’s with beautifully clear colour pictures and quality sound. What a change.







An old Bakerlite Telephone





My modern Telephone

The telephone is another great example of how things have changed over my life time. I remember the old Bakerlite phones sitting on the hall stand in our house. We had to share a line with some of our neighbours, so you could only make a call when the line was free.

Now we have mobiles, androids and landline phones that we can use anywhere. That is a huge change.



All this technological change is wonderful, but I suspect that we have been so focused on gadgets and technology; we have, as a society, often forgotten that we need to make other changes as well.

For us as human beings to grow, we need to look at changing the ways that we think. We need to let go of the old outdated ways of thinking.

We need to change attitudes like: “my father did it this way, my grandfather did it this way and my great grandfather did it this way too, so I will continue to do it the way they did. It was good enough for them so it’s good enough for me.”  

Attitudes like this stifle us and can easily stop us from living a prosperous life in this changing world.

Here is another example of a way of thinking that needs to be changed. 

We need to let go of the fear of people who are different from us. This may have been useful when we lived in a tribal situation, but in today’s society hanging onto this fear encourages at best isolation; and at its worst racism, violence and discrimination. In fact we need to let go of fear altogether for our society to survive and evolve.

Change is not always easy. It can be very confronting, make us fearful and resentful. However, it does not have to be like that. It is all about how you think. If you tackle change with courage, enthusiasm, a willingness to learn and perseverance then change is your friend.

So think about what you need to change, and which attitudes you are holding onto that are not serving you. Take a deep breath and just do it. You will be glad that you did.

Friday, 4 January 2013

Friday Musings - Prickly Heat

It is very hot in Adelaide today, so I am hibernating.The forecast is for a top of 44C so it is defiantly a day for chilling out and not being very energetic.

Summer Skies and Scotch Thistles
It is a good day though for doing things like writing blog posts which don't work up much of a sweat.

Today is one of those days when according to the doom and gloom set we should all be having a bad day.Especially those of us that live in the bush fire prone areas. 

I wish the media would stop making such a drama of days like today. All it does is create fear and anxiety in the community. And let's face it, if you live in a rural area in Australia, you know about the bush fire risk. You do not need to have it dramatised and pushed into your face every time the News comes on the TV or Radio! It is not necessary for your friends and relatives to become anxious for you because they have heard or seen an inflated report in the media. In fact I think it is totally unnecessary and downright unkind.

So I am enjoying my day today. I refuse to be drawn into the fear of a bush fire. Today is just another very hot South Aussie summer's day. Even though we are going to have more very hot days over the next week in particular and the months to come, like everything in life; it too shall pass.

Hilary Thompson
The Out and About Therapist
Facilitator at Flourishing Relationships Retreats


Sunday, 14 October 2012

Sunday Musings and Tall Ships

I went off on a photo shoot this morning with my photographic buddy Fran. 
We had heard that the Navy was in Pt Adelaide today, so thought we would go and have a look and take some photos.
The One and All at Pt Adelaide SA

Isn't it interesting how sometimes a day turns out to be quite different from what you expected?

We went looking for the Navy, but they weren't there. 
But what we did find were Tall Ships.

The One and All was in port. I have not seen her up close before, so here was an unexpected photographic opportunity. 



Then we walked along to where the ketch Falie is permanently moored.
Inside the wheelhouse of the ketch Falie 
As we were photographing  the Falie from the dock, we were approached by a gentleman who it turned out was involved with the preservation of the Falie. 

He asked us if we would like to go on board to photograph. Of course we said "yes". So he unlocked the gates and we spent a very happy half an hour photographing madly.

What a treat it was to actually go on board this lovely old ship. 

So you never know  what opportunities may arise even when it seems that things have gone wrong. Fran and I expected to see Naval ships, but as I found out later, they were miles away at Outer Harbour.

However, we had the opportunity to go on board the Falie which we would not have done if we had not been at the
Pt Adelaide dock today at that particular time  to meet the gentleman who could let us on board. Another day he would not have been there. I love synchronicity!

Hilary Thompson
The Out and About Therapist   
Facilitator at Flourishing Relationships Retreats